Sunday, June 21, 2015

6.21.2015

Hi!
Hope all is well and that you had a good week!  Best thing this week? Hardest thing this week?

The boys left for scout camp early Monday morning and looked forward to a productive week! They ended up having a great time and accomplished a lot. The food was good this year and they even had steak on their last night!  The bishop was up there most of the week and offered a workout at 5AM for anyone who wanted. The boys enjoyed that even tho it was very early. Preston was also able to get in his runs so he was pretty happy. They would then join in on the penguin swim at 6AM.  They were so thankful that the pool wasn't too cold. :)   Wyatt and some friends used some sticks etc. and a few things they got from the trading post and made bows and arrows. The bishop then got in on the action and helped them make slings.  That was a highlight for Wyatt!!  They are pretty tired out from the week but I'm so glad they had a good time!  Dad went up Friday afternoon to help out and get scouts home on Saturday. It sure was good to get everyone home again.
Brenna had a big week as she and a few other friends went with the Stueck's to the beach and six flags.  She had a great few days despite her worst fear coming true ... Getting stuck in an elevator for about 20 minutes (with her friends). She survived despite some girl dramatics. Haha.   It was odd to be home with just Bryant this week but we had fun. :)  I think we went to the pool everyday and sure enjoyed the one on one time !

Dad got the new 6 plus iphone. Wyatt calls it his "tablet". It is huge!
We also upgraded our van. We got the same van. Even the same color. But about 100,000 less miles and is 2 years newer. The most awesome aspect is that it was owned by an older women and it is in excellent condition. I'm not even sure if anyone has ever sat in the back seat. It is in new condition!  I almost hate to take it on our trip to Utah this summer for fear that it will not quite be as clean when we get home. Haha. But it will be nice to not overheat on our trip like in years past and we can vacuum it out when we get home right ?! ;)
We leave for our Gibson reunion in St. George this Thursday and then will head up to Orem and Logan after that.
We will miss you but know you are doing important work where you are at!
Aunt Angie told me she was going to write you about what's been going on with her. She is strong and brave and we have had a lot of great talks! She has often referred to your example and experience and I'm thankful for our perspective on life because of that.  She has been a great example to me during this trial!  She is doing great and has such good support at home and in her ward!  It will be wonderful to see her and everyone this week!
I face timed my dad and mom today and got to wish my dad a Happy Father's Day! That was a treat!  They are doing great on their mission in Chile and are nearing their half way mark as are you! ;)
We pray for "our missionaries", you and gma and gpa, everyday!  We are thankful for your service and great examples!!  Keep it up! Work hard!! And have a wonderful week ahead!

Love, 
Mom


Preston and Wyatt left for scout camp at 5 AM Monday morning

Bryant loves the slides and asks to go to the pool everyday. It's summer. Why not ;)

Bryant and dad watching the NBA Finals and doing some pushups

With Preston and Wyatt at scout camp and Brenna gone to six flags with the Stuecks (Emelia and Caity), it was just the three of us at home. Weird.

Bryant heading off to cub scouts. The new program starts this month.

Brenna and gang on their adventures to the beach and Six Flags


91* in the morning! Ugh. Check out our week.

This was Bryant and I on the way to Costco.

And we headed straight to "the cold place" to cool off!! Bryant is trying to "see his breath". It was refreshing!

We went through the car wash, went to the mall to get See's candy for Father's day, and of course visit the puppies :)

As hot as it was, we sure had a beautiful sunset !

This was dad on his way up Mt. Lemmon to help out Friday evening and drive scouts home Saturday. Jealous!!

Preston and Wyatt are in the right corner. They had a good week!

Dad is hilarious!  He tried to scare us with his scary campfire face.  

Happy Father's Day to the best dad EVER!

So fun to talk to my Dad on Father's day!  He is an amazing example and solid as a rock! It was such a treat to "see" mom and dad!!




Monday, May 18, 2015

May 2015 - Baccalaureate

--This is the baccalaureate talk with a little about Riley. Tanner had some great words from Riley about faith. Good reminders :)


Marana Baccalaureate Speech 2015
Faith: the power to Act
Just to be clear; No, I am not graduating with this awesome group, I know I look younger than most of them, but I graduated with the class of 2012.
Graduates! I'm so happy to be with you! This time in your life really is "the start of something new!" (Hopefully some of you caught that reference)

Like Levi said, my name is Tanner Morse. I was a Marana Tiger, then a Pima Aztec, and starting this summer, a BYU cougar. But always a wildcat at heart. And yes I'm a Mormon!
Being a member of The church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints has given me many opportunities to speak. Having served a 2 year mission for the church in New York City, I have attended many churches of other faiths and even taught in a Lutheran church about what I believe. Even with these cherished opportunities, I have never been asked to speak at an inter faith event. In this I am honored to be given this opportunity.
This was a new experience thinking about what exactly to address an inter faith audience. As I did, I thought, "what binds us all together? What is the reason we are gathered tonight?" I believe the answer is FAITH. It is our faith that brings us here, it is the fact that we have faith that binds us together. So tonight, faith is the principle I have chosen to expound on.

To illustrate this I will start with an old story:
A fable is told about an eagle who thought he was a chicken. When the eagle was very small, he fell from the safety of his nest. A chicken farmer found the eagle, brought him to the farm, and raised him in a chicken coop among his many chickens. The eagle grew up doing what chickens do, living like a chicken, and believing he was a chicken.
A naturalist came to the chicken farm to see if what he had heard about an eagle acting like a chicken was really true. He knew that an eagle is king of the sky. He was surprised to see the eagle strutting around the chicken coop, pecking at the ground, and acting very much like a chicken. The farmer explained to the naturalist that this bird was no longer an eagle. He was now a chicken because he had been trained to be a chicken and he believed that he was a chicken.
The naturalist knew there was more to this great bird than his actions showed as he “pretended” to be a chicken. He was born an eagle and had the heart of an eagle, and nothing could change that. The man lifted the eagle onto the fence surrounding the chicken coop and said, “Eagle, thou art an eagle. Stretch forth thy wings and fly.” The eagle moved slightly, only to look at the man; then he glanced down at his home among the chickens in the chicken coop where he was comfortable. He jumped off the fence and continued doing what chickens do. The farmer was satisfied. “I told you it was a chicken,” he said.
The naturalist returned the next day and tried again to convince the farmer and the eagle that the eagle was born for something greater. He took the eagle to the top of the farmhouse and spoke to him: “Eagle, thou art an eagle. Thou dost belong to the sky and not to the earth. Stretch forth thy wings and fly.” The large bird looked at the man, then again down into the chicken coop. He jumped from the man’s arm onto the roof of the farmhouse.
Knowing what eagles are really about, the naturalist asked the farmer to let him try one more time. He would return the next day and prove that this bird was an eagle. The farmer, convinced otherwise, said, “It is a chicken.”
The naturalist returned the next morning to the chicken farm and took the eagle and the farmer some distance away to the foot of a high mountain. They could not see the farm nor the chicken coop from this new setting. The man held the eagle on his arm and pointed high into the sky where the bright sun was beckoning above. He spoke: “Eagle, thou art an eagle! Thou dost belong to the sky and not to the earth. Stretch forth thy wings and fly.” This time the eagle stared skyward into the bright sun, straightened his large body, and stretched his massive wings. His wings moved, slowly at first, then surely and powerfully. With the mighty screech of an eagle, he flew.
A few themes come to my mind when I read this story:

­Faith is the power to act
­Faith gives us the power to reach our full potential.
Life is full of trials and circumstances that break us down. Those trials are the like the chickens in our lives, so to speak, that keep us from from seeing who we really are. We must remember, our circumstances don't define who we are. Our actions, or what we choose to do in regards to our circumstances define who we are. Our friends, boyfriends, girlfriends, breakups, family situations, failed tests, lost games, financial set backs, not landing the part, or the job. None of these things makeup our character, or determine our potential or self worth. Like the eagle, we need to look towards the Son with an eye a faith enough to stretch our wings. It is then, that we will start to realize the actuality our divine potential.

My next story may be familiar and it illustrates this point. This story is about a young man who really inspires me and has inspired many around him. This is what I call a rough start, great finish. Some of you may know Riley Heflin and his story. He graduated with the class of 2014. Riley's mom Chrissie, who is with us tonight, gave me a background of Riley's story, she wrote me saying:
"Riley was diagnosed with Acute Myeloid Leukemia in December 2011.   AML is a very aggressive type of leukemia.  After much testing, it was concluded that his only saving course of treatment would be a bone marrow transplant. Chemo alone would not save him.  He spent 5 months in the hospital enduring treatments to prepare him for and then to have the bone marrow transplant.  We were incredibly blessed that Riley's brother Preston was a match for him and gave Riley the life saving marrow that he needed." 
I contacted Riley and asked him:
"How did your faith shape your choices and help you overcome your battle with leukemia?"
He replied saying:
"When I was battling cancer, I put everything in God's hands. I basically said, "Look, I have nothing to hold on to but you, God. So, I will do whatever I can, and I know that you will help me with the rest." I didn't expect God to just save me, but I did know that whatever happened to me was the will of God. And honestly, that was good enough for me because I know that He has a plan for me and He wants me to be happy. With that in mind, I was able to cope with the trials I faced and I did it with a perfect brightness of hope. I did the very best that I could, and I did what truly made me, and God, happy. I made the choice to do whatever would allow me to receive blessings in my life, and those blessings came. Believe it or not, when I look back at the times when I was battling cancer I think of so many good memories. It seems really weird, but it was because I was incredibly blessed during that time. I knew that God gave me trials like this for a reason. I was able to learn and grow from the experience, and I am incredibly thankful for that.
Today I still have that same faith in God. I put faith into action by making choices that allow God to flood my life with blessings. Because of that I see His hand in my life every single day. I'm able to face any trial with optimism and hope because I know that if I go and do what God wants me to do I'll find a way to overcome anything. He wants me to be happy no matter what happens, and I can be happy no matter what happens. It's all about accessing that faith to reach happiness. Every day I teach this principle to others so that they can understand the circumstances they are in or the opposition they face. I see the change that comes once we apply this in our lives, and it's the best thing in the world."
I want to highlight and put together two things Riley said:  "I can be happy no matter what happens." IF "I put faith into action by making choices that allow God to flood my life with blessings."
Riley's very real trial is a very real example of choosing to act rather than be acted upon. He courageously chose faith in God and positivity when the odds were against him. To Riley, it didn't matter what came his way, as long as he was doing what was right, he was happy.
Today Riley is doing great and serving a mission for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints in the Massachusetts Boston area.  He has compassion and empathy for others that is different from most 19 year old boys.  He finds joy in life and is happy.

Graduates!
Don't let others or your circumstances define you. You have the power to choose who you will become. I want to challenge you to take heart, and act. Refuse to be acted upon.
Many will make excuses in life, blaming others or poor circumstances for their bad behavior or there lack of progress. This simply is not not true. You decide who you will be and who you will become. Always! Have I made my point clear? I hope so.
Has everyone seen The Wizard of Oz? If you haven't, you've got to get out more. Towards the end of the movie Dorothy, the lion, the tin man, and the scarecrow, are surrounded by the the wicked witch and her guards. She tells them that the last one will see the first three go. The witch then proceeds to light her broom on fire and ignite the scarecrows arm. At this critical moment, (and probably as a safety measure) there happens to be a bucket of water that which Dorothy used to put out the arm of the scarecrow. In the process, Dorothy unintentionally splashed water on the witch. It's was then, that The Wicked Witch of the West said:
"Aah, you cursed brat! Look what you've done! I'm melting! I'm melting! Oh what a world, what a world! Who would have thought a good little girl like you could destroy my beautiful wickedness."
        In the movie, the witch says this really fast which is why this profound phrase is easily overlooked. Let me read the last half again: "Oh what a world, what a world! Who would have thought a good little girl like you could destroy my beautiful wickedness."
       
I emphasize this as my last point because I believe that there is so much power in simply being good. Life is no stranger to complications, but I know that if we simply be good, we can rid this world of a whole lot of evil. Abraham Lincoln declared: “When I do good, I feel good. When I do bad, I feel bad. That's my religion.” I too believe it is that simple. I believe that one person can have a huge impact on the world today.
We as people of faith, must believe in being honest, true, chaste, benevolent, virtuous, and in doing good to all men. We must believe all things in other words, give others the benefit of the doubt, we must hope all things, enabling us to endure many things with a hope to be able to endure all things. I want to encourage you to seek after anything and everything that is virtuous, lovely, of good report or praiseworthy. Seek after all the good the world has to offer. Be the good the world has to offer. Hold to your faith, because sometimes that is all you will have.
There is probably so much going through your heads at this time. If I could have you remember one thing from this speech, it would be this: Faith is power, the power to choose who you will become. Therefore, it is you that decides. It takes faith to set goals and more faith to learn to live to reach those goals. You won't be perfect at it, but your best is all that is asked. You Graduates have so much potential to do good. I know we are all excited for what we will see from you.


Congratulations class of 2015 Roar Tigers!

Monday, May 11, 2015

5.11.2015

Riley,
So great to see you last night!!  What a treat to talk to you for so long! You looked fantastic and happy! What else could a mother want for her son ? :) love you so much!!  

We had a good week.  We had a huge storm last Monday. Remember how the pocket park has a huge grassy area? Well you couldn't tell on Monday. Crazy.

Brenna had flag duty during the storm and got soaked!

These are a few of our peaches. Looking good huh?

We had to cover the tree with a netting so the birds wouldn't eat our peaches. Last year they were all over the peaches as they ripened. We are ahead of them this year :)

Look at what the kids write on my shopping list...

Lunch with Bryant at school.

His Apple, my apple :)

Diamondbacks game with Red Rock Athletics League






Saturday work before games begin



Have a wonderful day!  What are your p-day plans for today? Hope you had a nice run by the Charles. :)
Love , mom



Sunday, May 10, 2015

Mother's Day - May 10, 2015

I am a lucky mom! I had a wonderful day being spoiled by Vince and my kiddos!  





And what a treat it was to see Riley's face! We were able to talk for a few hours!!  He and his companion skyped from a member's home and after awhile we hung up and he called us back from their ward building where they do their digital mission work.

Among other things, we talked about ...

His shoes.
His new Mission President coming in July, President Miller.
The dentist and how he might get in for a check up since his companion has to go in a lot lately for a root canal.
Their church buildings.  They have an attic and a 2 level parking garage.  So different.
Star Wars
He's learning "A Child's Prayer" on the guitar.
The USS Constitution and the Bunker Hill Monument.
How expensive it is to live in Cambridge compared to Waterbury.  (He gets $180 a month)
Great Chinese and Thai food!! (Best pizza was in Waterbury)
How he loves Shake Shack and thinks of the Gibsons whenever he goes.  (And it's pretty cheap compared to other places to eat out)
Driving conditions in the winter and the impatient and angry New England drivers.
Major zone changes coming up.
The Digital Mission!



Riley and Elder Lee seem to have a good time :)


Bryant sharing our Sunday brownies with Riley

What a New England winter does to a missionary's shoes


Sunday, May 3, 2015

5.3.2015

Hi Elder Heflin!
How is it going? Hope you have had a good week. What are your highs and lows from the week? Tell me a story.  :)  Did you get our package?
We had a good week. We continue to work in the yard bit by bit. Our garden is taking off and our apple tree is exploding with apples. The birds are eyeing our peaches on the peach tree. They are small but looking good. :)
I had a primary mtg this week. I'm so happy to work with the sisters in my presidency. They are dependable and have testimonies of our Savior Jesus Christ. Primary is a fun place to be. :)
I went on the 5th grade field trip to the U of A Flandrau Science Center with Brenna on Friday. It was fun... and loud on the bus. Haha. 
Saturday (baseball) was a weird day. The weather was so crazy! So unexpected, but it rained!  It was supposed to be (97 degrees) the hottest day of the year so far and it was hot. At first. Then a dark cloud came out of nowhere and the wind blew and a huge dust storm hit and then it rained. It turned out to be a beautiful evening and a great night of games, but just weird. 
Today was stake conference. The theme was gratitude and optimism.  It was really good. Several good talks! All good council. Some of my favorites...
" ...Doubters do not achieve.
Focusing on the positive brightens our light. Temple attendance will contribute to a positive outlook and help your light shine brighter. 
If our leaders give us guidance it will uplift us to follow. ... "
Bryant sat next to me and set the timer on my phone for 2 hours and then would look at it periodically to see how much time was left. He is a hoot. 
Can't wait to hear from you on Mother's Day! What is the plan for that? Can we skype? 
Love you so much! Work hard!!! 
Love, mom

Nana and Papa came over for FHE to teach us a little about our family history.  It was fun to hear some stories and see our family tree.  

Nana then showed us some old pictures she has of us.  This is one of her favorites of Bryant.  Yep,he looks the same :)

It has been quite a week of homework for Brenna.  The whole family has assisted on "calculating volume for irregular shapes".  Kinda fun once you get the hang of it ;)

Uno fun :)

Field trip to the U of A Flandrau Science Center with Brenna's 5th grade classes.




Kendyll, Ms. Martinez and Brenna

Bryant up to bat for the A's.



Weird weather during our games Saturday. It was supposed to be hot and 97 degrees all day. But it was hot and then we had a dust storm and then rain and then hot and then more rain.  It was an odd day. But we got a double rainbow and an amazing sunset out of it at least. ;)



                                                                      Brenna pitching.

Wyatt pitching.